You’ve heard the term “up on a soap box”, right? I’m going to stand on a sewing box instead, being careful not to break it of course.
In trying to keep Angel occupied and out of trouble yesterday afternoon, we went on a short car ride. A song came on the radio, and I liked the words. It was a song that talked about taking the time to enjoy the simple things in life. The lyrics talk about taking time to breathe a deep breath of mountain air, calling elderly parents just to chat, spending time with a spouse, and pushing a little girl on a swing. In the song, it is also mentioned that you could break your neck trying to earn lots of money, but you can’t take that with you when you leave this world, so the song focuses on taking time for the important things in life.
I’ve heard that song before, but really hadn’t paid attention to it. This time, I listened and I liked what I heard. We have such a short time on this earth that I think it would be a shame to waste it rushing and hustling and bustling and forgetting to enjoy the sweet, simple times of life.
Some people may say that it’s hard to enjoy the sweet simple times of life when the economy is bad and people are struggling in many ways. While there is some truth to that, haven’t we kind of done this to ourselves in a way? As I pointed out in an earlier post, some years ago we had a similar problem with gasoline prices increasing, and one way that was addressed was to lower the freeway speed limit to 55 mph. During that process, we learned that it saved gas, and it also saved lives. Oh, yes, it took longer to get to the destination, but there was time to enjoy the scenery of the countryside and there was time to have a real conversation with our fellow passengers. Of course, somewhere along the way, we got in a hurry again and we got very impatient because we needed to move faster, so the speed limit was once again raised to 70 mph and higher, and the rush, hurry, and bustle began all over again. Yes, we can get to our destination faster, but it is now costing us even more money to do so. Shouldn’t we have learned the first time around?
I do some volunteer sewing for a hospice in Gulfport, Mississippi (www.odsyhealth.com ) and I’m sure if we had the opportunity to talk to the hospice patients, not one of them would say that they wish they had hurried or rushed through life more. I suspect that they would all say that they regretted not spending more time with their families and friends, or in some cases, they might say that they were glad that they took that time. There is another old song out there that has a line that states “tomorrow never comes”. For many hospice patients tomorrow never comes.
While we won’t all be hospice patients, we all will face the end of our lives someday and I suspect that not one single person will wish they had spent more time at the office, or worked more hours during the week to land that big account, or have a huge beautiful house. No, I suspect that every single one of us may have at least one regret about words that were left unsaid, or relationships that should have been mended and weren’t.
I’m not trying to be morbid, and of course, this is just my opinion, which I’m sure isn’t shared by the majority of people. However, I still think we should slow down, take time to smell the coffee and the roses
, and learn to enjoy life more. Life can be tough, and it isn’t fair, but there are some beautiful moments in life if we’ll just pay attention. What is a more beautiful sound than newborn baby’s cry, or a grandchild’s sweet little voice telling you a story about their day? What is more beautiful than the face of a toddler proudly presenting his mommy a weed, thinking it’s a beautiful flower? Those are the moments that we need to slow down and pay attention to in life. We can learn from those toddlers. Have you ever watched a toddler as he or she explores the world? They find such pleasure in simple things–a blade of grass, a flower, the clouds in the sky, an airplane flying overhead. Each discovery can often bring squeals of delight from a toddler exploring the world around him. Somehow, when we grow up, we lose the ability to delight in the little things, and we start hurrying and rushing through life. Is it any wonder that so many of us are stressed, anxious, and depressed these days?
Ok, I’ll step down off of my sewing box for now. However, I still think we should all slow down and focus more on the truly important things in life because one day tomorrow may not come.
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